Here I am. Yes, I’m alive! I had a nice Thanksgiving that reminded me why I’m thankful for my family and thankful I moved out. We went with a non-dramatic no-one-has-to-cook option this year and headed north to this lovely resort. After a few days of gluttony, eyeing the elliptical with rancor, and laughing it up with my fam, I was ready for a quiet few days at home to unwind before the ever-looming Monday arrived.
Then I got the itch to do something productive. God knows why. So I snatched my boyfriend away from his precious football to go Christmas decoration shopping with me. I prefer to not purchase new things every year for every holiday because it’s just not practical. However, we didn’t do outside decorations last year because buying our tiny tree was about all we had the money for. So this year we got lights and a wreath. We may end up getting a few more net lights to cover some naked bushes. Check it.
We have this rickety old wooden ladder left to us by the previous tenant that my man refused to let me climb (despite the fact I’ve probably been on infinitely more ladders than he has). Adorbs. Yeah, I said adorbs, just love me. Those are supposed to be icicle lights, but they seemed to be pretty tightly wound in the box. We are hoping the icicles just fall after some time being hung = too lazy to break out the ladder to force them into the right shape.
Oh yeah, see my wreath? Here’s a close up.
I love this wreath so hard. We found the Christmas section at our local Target and I did briefly fall in love with a wreath of ornaments, but we couldn’t agree on which color(s) so when I saw this I tossed our compromise back to its shelf and snagged this little beaut. I’m going to try to bring in some cranberry garland to our house to pull the wreath and everything together.
My boyfriend did complain that we were decorating too early. Then we pulled up to our house and our neighbor was stringing lights across his garage. And our other neighbor. I don’t think it’s too early because, quite frankly, I don’t want to be out there in the snow struggling to get it done. We felt so great once it was all hung and lit. Kind of like we were going to be good adults one day. One day.
My boyfriend said something to me earlier this week that shocked me. It rocked me. It picked me up and dropped me.
He, the love of my life, had never EVER carved a pumpkin for Halloween. What kind of American is he? My dad will never approve now. Ok, I’m being melodramatic, but I was still surprised. Carving a pumpkin is an easy, fun, and traditional way to celebrate Halloween in the U.S. I thought at first is was his major aversion to being creative/crafty/artsy, but he told me they just never did it in his house.
Maybe my shock was also related to the extreme amount of love I have for Fall in general. I love Halloween and my birthday is in the fall. I often celebrated my childhood birthdays with pumpkins, hayrides, or apple picking. With much begging and reassuring that it would be fun, I convinced him to carve a pumpkin with me. He watched me cut a hole in the top and scoop the guts out, then I handed him a knife and scoop and told him to have at it.
I could tell by the concentration in his face that he was at least interested in facing the challenge. I think the magical moment when we lit the candles in the finished pumpkins I knew he was sold. He even admitted to liking it. This is a major victory.
His is on the left, a classic jack-o-lantern. Mine is the character Totoro from a movie I’ve loved since I was a child.
What traditions do you hold dear? Any common traditions you don’t?
If you are like me, you read most of the freshly pressed posts each day. One of the posts chosen today was What the Penguin & Random House Merger Means for Authors. I love to read, but I am not a writer. Not an author of anything but this blog. I encourage you to read the blog post if you haven’t. It is a great post about the future of publishing and the effect of being able to self publish through Amazon. The merger of two very large traditional publishers in the wake of self published ebooks got me to thinking. These publishers are virtual powerhouses being that you actually know what I’m talking about when I say Random House and you aren’t in the industry. So why change? The world is changing. We are moving forward. This is the digital age. More buzz words.
Here is the comment I made:
I think it’s interesting how these traditional paper publishers are looking to the future and focusing on ebooks while there is another cultural push to learn more traditional arts. Canning at home is making a comeback while we are all buying ebooks for our Kindle apps. For me, it’s a little disorienting.
Balancing the technology in our lives is something we all need to work towards. The ability to learn about anything I want with only a few clicks, or communicating with someone miles away in seconds is something I love and take for granted. I think, however, that we can all agree there are areas that technology has lead us astray. Recently learning about the negative effects of artificial dyes in our foods, for example. I know it was not its intention, but that post really put some things into perspective for me.
Technology has given us so many opportunities and equally as many challenges. Finding the balance in all our lives is part of the human experience now.